把目光放到最细。身为小人物的我如今坐在考场中。为了自己的明天,为了自己的梦想而拼搏。在考场外的父母,正在焦急地等待着我们,烈日当空,滴滴汗珠流过脸颊,流下的是一道道对儿女殷切的期望。
用显微镜把目光放到最小处;柴米油盐,一日三餐,小人物每天重复着看似单调而又毫无意义的活动。然而这些活动却成为了维系整个社会正常运转的必不可少的元素。有的人需要付出,有的人需要公正,有的人需要认真。正因为这些“有的人”在自己的岗位上默默无闻地耕耘着,社会才能正常运转。著名相声演员冯巩在春晚上曾经有过一段经典的台词:在相声界我演员演的最好,在演员里我导演导的最好,在导演里我编剧编的最好,在编剧界我相声说得最棒。所以请记住,在别人的天空里我们可以是星星,在自己的天空里却必须是太阳。
著名指挥家舟舟天生染色体缺少,但是在全家人的努力引导下,舟舟走向了指挥道路。一路的艰辛,终于有所收获。残联主席邓朴方曾拥抱着舟舟,深情地说:“一切生命都是伟大的!”
显微镜下的小人物其实并不渺小,他们很伟大,他们用意志与精神支撑起了整个家庭,整个集体,乃至整个社会。小人物就如金字塔基,为金字塔的高度奠基。小人物,不平凡。
Jane Eyre, is a poor but aspiring, small in body but huge in soul, obscure but self-respecting girl. After we close the covers of the book, after having a long journey of the spirit, Jane Eyre, a marvelous figure, has left us so much to recall and to think:
We remember her goodness: for someone who lost arms and blinded in eyes, for someone who despised her for her ordinariness, and even for someone who had hurt her deeply in the past.
We remember her pursuit of justice. It’s like a panion with the goodness. But still, a virtuous person should promote the goodness on one side and must check the badness on the other side.
We remember her self-respect and the clear situation on equality. In her opinion, everyone is the same at the God’s feet. Though there are differences in status、in property and also in appearance, but all the human being are equal in personality.
We also remember her striving for life, her toughness and her confidence…
When we think of this girl, what she gave us was not a pretty face or a transcendent temperament that make us admire deeply, but a huge charm of her ersonality.
Actually, she wasn’t pretty, and of course, the ordinary appearance didn’t make others feel good of her, even her own aunt felt disgusted with it. And some others even thought that she was easy to look down on and to tease, so when Miss Ingram met Jane Eyre, she seemed quite contemptuous, for that she was obviously much more prettier than ‘the plain and ugly governess’. But as the little governess had said: ‘Do you think, because I am poor, obscure, plain, and little, I am soulless and heartless? You think wrong!’ This is the idea of equality in Jane Eyre’s mind. God hadn’t given her beauty and wealth, but instead, God gave her a kind mind and a thinking brain. Her idea of equality and self-respect impress us so much and let us feel the power inside her body.
In my mind, though a person’s beauty on the face can make others once feel that one is attractive and charming, if his or her mind isn’t the same beautiful as the appearance, such as beauty cannot last for, when others find that the beauty which had charmed them was only a falsity, it’s not true, they will like the person no more. For a long time, only a person’s GREat virtue, a noble soul, a beautiful heart can be called as AN EVERLASTING BEAUTY, just as Kahill Gibran has said, that ‘Beauty is a heart enflamed and a soul enchanted’. I can feel that how beauty really is, as we are all fleshly men, so we can’t distinguish whether a man is of nobleness or humbleness, but fleshly men, so we can’t distinguish whether a man is of nobleness or humbleness, but as there are great differences in our souls, and from that, we can know that whether a man is noble or ordinary, and even obscure, that is, whether he is beautiful or not.
Her story makes us thinking about life and we learn much from her experience, at least, that is a fresh new recognition of the real beauty.
适合的标准犹如一面旗帜,在人生旅途上引领着我们前行。因此,给自己一个适合的标准,我们才能赢得人生。
适合的标准就是做事的准则要在自己的能力范围之内,了解自己,也了解他人,不虚妄,不菲薄。
大家把蛋白质含量极其丰富而又十分廉价的大豆,用盐卤点制豆浆的标准发明了豆腐,豆腐的诞生,彻底改变了大豆的命运。豆腐有利于人体对大豆蛋白的吸收和利用,并适应了不同地区大家的口味和喜好。有了这样的标准,普通的大豆就得到了升华。
可见,适合的标准是开启成功之门的钥匙。著名教育家陶行知先生,曾在重庆凤凰山古圣寺创办了一所育才学校,收容抗战烽火下的难童。为了不受国*党的控制,他不要政府的经费,组织师生四处募捐。他宣布一条纪律,募捐所得点滴归公,任何人不得借故暂借或挪用。一次,他到很远的地方募捐,收获颇丰,此时他已经饥肠轱辘、体力不支,但他也不肯动用一分公款,而是连夜赶回了古寺。面对责任,他一点也不含糊,坚持践行自己的准则,言行一致,知行合一,最终实现了自己的教育理想。也正因如此,他赢得了后人的景仰。
适合的标准是正确定位人生的尺度。一个登山运动员攀登珠穆朗玛峰,当他攀到8000米时就返回了。下山后,很多人非常惋惜地对他说:“你应该继续攀登,因为你离顶峰只有800多米的距离,这样放弃真是遗憾!”但这个运动员说:“我知道我自己,我的能力只能达到8000米。”8000米,就是这个运动员的标准啊!试想,若他继续攀登,面临的结果有两种:一是突破极限,到达山顶;二是在低温低压下永埋冰雪之中,前功尽弃。成功的标准有很多种,但试想,如果离开了生命的存在来谈标准,意义何在?我们不得不对这位运动员肃然起敬,“我知道我自己”“只能达到8000米”,他用适合自己的标准来定位人生,最终找到自我价值,同样赢得了大家的尊重。
适合的标准是找到快乐幸福的路标。爱因斯坦一生过得极为快乐,秘诀在于他有一个生活标准,即“四不”:不求人,不求名,不求利,不求掌声。他还表示,“四不”使他有了更多的精力和时间从事科学研究,生活充实了,就有一种被幸福包围的感觉。大豆命运的改变,正在于它也找到了适合自己的标准,让生命价值得到了升华。让我们放下工作的重担,拾起生活的平淡,原来幸福就在身边,适合的标准让我们每天都能快乐盈怀。
面对责任,面对困境,面对生活,给自己定一个适合的标准吧,我们将迎来崭新的人生。
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