您好!
我是一名高中生,我是李华,听闻您对您儿子参加社团的想法持反对态度,我想就此向您表达一下我的想法和建议。
作为一名父亲看重孩子的学习成绩,希望他学业有成,有一条幸福之路可走,这可以理解,也对您关心孩子的做法感到惊讶,都说可怜天下父母心,父母望子成龙的心态一直从古延续至今,你这一方面的想法并无不妥。
但是,当前社会选择人才更需要素质人才,一个人拥有好的学习成绩仅是其中一方面,国家注重人才培养,提倡人的全面发展提升自我,这让普通学生在强大的社会竞争压力下能占有一点优势,甚至可以拔得头筹,同学有自己的兴趣爱好,愿意发展自己的做法值得鼓励,更需要家长老师的支持关心,鼓励他做自己想做的事,同时而提面命不忘提醒他切忌本末倒置,这样才能真正达到呵护推进的目的。
诚然,国人现都在为诗词才女武亦姝的才华与美丽感叹,我也如此,可谓“始于颜值,忠于气质,陷于才华”,正是武亦姝敢于发展自己的兴趣爱好,父母对其也有一定的鼓励与帮助才成就了如此“腹有诗书气自华”的美少女,武亦姝的兴趣爱好也并未影响其成绩的'好坏,同样的成绩并不是学习的全部,对兴趣爱好的培养也是人学习行为的一部分,我支持同学培养专长,入社团参加活动,我相信只要能够兼顾两方面,但便不会影响学习成绩,还能提升同学的精神活跃程度,让其有更好的精力投心于学习。
其实面对当今社会的就业现状,或许您也有一定感慨吧。就业压力如此之大,只有培养兴趣爱好促进自己全面发展才能在众人中获得关注,得到更多的机会,这同时也响应了国家号召,岂不两全?
在此我希望您可以与您的儿子多加交流,互相交换想法,尊重他的选择,鼓励他全面发展自己。
祝您身体健康
2xxx年8月29日
李华
Dear XXX,
I know you have just come into a new class and can hardly get well on your classmates that you are worried about it.I'm very glad to help you. So let me help you to analyze the reasons and help you to solve the problems.Firstly,maybe you are introverted,so you should change your character and try to chat with others.
Then you will find they are very kind and easy to get along with.Secondly,you may be not adapt to the new class.So you just need some time to try to know about the new team.And you will find the new team is very interesting.Finally,I suggest you to introduce yourself to your classmates.Totally,it all depand on yourself.So cheer up!
Yours,
XXX
Zeng Qiao is one of my friends. She is a beautiful, outgoingand good-tempered girl. She smiles frequently. I think it’s her smile that makes her beauty. We live in the same dormitory, so that we always stay together, no matter going to classroom or having dinners. At first, I don’t like her very much, because she is always talking. It seems that she can’t stop open her mouth. I am a little bit quiet and introverted, so I seldom talk to others. But gradually, I find that she can have influence on others by what she says. Zeng Qiao likes sharing interesting things with others. For example, she likes telling us her funny stories of her childhood or her former classmates. She always tells me that I should be more extroverted and learn to talk to others. Under the influence of her, I communicate with others more frequently and I find that it feels so great. I am so grateful that I can have such a good friend.
曾巧是我的一个朋友,她是个漂亮活泼,脾气又好的女孩子。她很喜欢笑,我觉得是她的笑容使她看上去漂亮。我们住同一间宿舍,因此不管是去教室还是吃饭都形影不离。之前我并不喜欢她,我认为她太喜欢说话了,总是停不住她的嘴。相反我性格内向,喜欢安静,很少跟别人说话。但是渐渐地,我发现她是个善于用言语影响别人的女孩子,她喜欢跟别人分享有趣的事,那些童年的故事或是以前同学的事情。她经常开导我要变得外向,多试着跟别人说话。在她的.影响下,我跟别人交流也更多了,并且发现这感觉非常好。我觉得有这样的朋友很幸运!
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