“老妈,星期天中午,我要去参加同学的生日聚会,我可以向英语补习班的老师请假吗?”我试探着提出请求。
老妈转过头,难以置信地看着我:“你要把补习班推掉?”她一拍桌子,显得有些生气,“这是不可能的!不去学习,还想着去玩?”……
同学邀请我参加他的生日聚会,这已经是第三次参加别人的生日了,在这件事上,老妈已经警告了我好几次——“再这样下去,哪还有时间学习啊!”但他是我比较要好的朋友,就不假思索地答应了。
回到家里,跟老妈说时,却遭到了强烈的反对。
那一刻,我觉得老妈似乎有些不可理喻,不过是一节课,两个多小时而已,又不会落下太多的知识、课程,而且还会有补课。一节课,才几十块钱,就能让老妈摆起一副严肃的面容,教育我不要浪费钱:快去上课,不要请假。很是吝啬。
难道真的不能参加同学的'生日聚会了吗?那种状况显然不是我想看到的。那就不能放弃一切可以去的机会。
但过后几天,我虽然在老妈面前无数次提过要求,但只有小部分使老妈的态度稍稍改变。在星期五晚上完成所有的作业,才能去参加。这是老妈提的要求。
星期五,我努力地想要完成作业。可还是剩下了几道题。
我小心翼翼地向老妈解释并恳求。得到的却是一句平平淡淡的“哦”。
星期天,接近中午。我来到指定地点,我豁出去了,不顾一切了。忐忑不安地,我缓缓地走进餐厅大门。
与同学疯玩了一整个下午,马上就要回店里了,又是一阵不安。多么希望,那一声“哦”是一个默许,好让我不会挨骂。
回到店里,听到的是老妈的一句话:“你爸在等你,快去。”就这样上了车。迎接我的,很可能是爸爸的一场大骂。
我以为,老妈的表现,只是暴风雨来临之前的平静,但整整过了一天,都没听到爸爸的怒喝。
那天,翻看老妈的信息,才发现,老妈与补习班老师的对话:珈鸣他星期天有事,就不去上课了。
我惊了一下,再看老妈,感觉完全不同,她瞬间变得善解人意了,他默默地帮我请了假。她变得“出手阔绰”了。
父母会关心你的学习,也会关心你是否快乐。这是我那天悟到的,也是我永远忘不了的。
When I was a freshman in college I watched the film Gua Sha Treatment for the first time, now I am a junior student and I come back to review the movie from a multicultural aspect, I have many different feelings after watching the film again.
At the beginning of the film, XuDatong is given an award and later he delivers a speech. What makes me impressed most is in his speech he says “one day I will become one of you, a truly successful American, today this award proved that America is a true land of opportunity and I am the living proof of that.” At that moment Xu thinks he has realized his American Dream totally with his lovingly wife and adorable son. However, I think it is ironical that to make a speech like that and I assume it is made on purpose to hind a clue for the story's development. How many non—American people have such a beautiful American dream? One of my classmate studies in American now and before he went aboard he told me his American dream is he can stand at the top of the New York. To be honest, I also dream that one day I can get the Green Card living there happily and successfully maybe working at the Wall Street. When Xu gets the award he thinks he entirely melted in the melting pot neglecting the multicultural obstruct, later the plot goes against the way he thinks. And later Quinlan asked Xu'why you be the scapegoat of your father?' Xu answers 'because he is Chinese.' Then maybe Xu knows that there is always a wide gap between Chinese and American cultures.
The second scene is Xu hit his son Denis because Denis hit the son of xu's boss, at the middle of the film xu tells his boss that he hit his own son is only to show his respect to his boss John Quinlan, that time Quinlan feels puzzled “what a Chinese logic”,yes, American can never understand such a logic full of Chinese characteristic, because they respect everyone including the children, they won't beat a child to please the boss, and there is no such a conception of degree between employee and employer, they feel everyone is equal, which is quite different from china.
Connected to the second scene, the third difference I want to analyze is the care for the children. In America, people pay more attention to the right of children which can be seen from the law—leaving children alone at home is illegal, while in China it is so common that almost everyone may experience such loneliness. And Children Welfare Agency does work in America which shows the importance Americans attach to children's right. What's more, I remember a line 'No one won the case, especially the child.' In my opinion, it also manifests the universal concern from the American public to the children.
The fourth aspect is following the procedure, in the film, more than there times, the people focus on the rule, the law, the procedure. At the Christmas Eve Xu wants to return back to his home pretending as a Santa Claus, what a pity, the security recognizes him and persuades 'you are always a good tenement, never causes troubles for me.' And another scene is at the end of the film , the judge says 'I have to follow the procedure.' However, in China people always have to ask for a favor to do something, and later you have to pay back the favor,for myself, I prefer the American style, strict to the procedure.
The fifth and the last point is the humors, Quinlan says 'you can't fall, your health security is the company paid.' 'Datong, welcome home, maybe next time, you can come from the front door.' 'dady, why you come from the window' ' because we don't have a chimney.' I really adore this distinguished American humor, especially in dangerous situations, which is quite rare in China.
That's my whole reaction to Gua Sha Treatment.
下午第一、二节课,我的注意力都无法集中,浑浑噩噩的上了两节课。下课后,我慢慢的走上五楼会议室,看着满脸兴奋的学生,还有脸上挂满笑容的老师,我心中更是苦痛,我坐下,又站起来,走出了会议室,没有人注意到我的离开,我就像空气一样被人遗忘。我走着,想着:“往哪?反正不回比赛现场了,那就去操场吧。”可到了操场,空无一人,竟然没有一个班上体育课。我便走到荡秋千那隐秘的角落,坐在地上,把头埋在膝盖上,任凭阳光打在我的后背上。
我坐着,周围静悄悄地,静得让我心烦,想到当初之所以想参加演讲比赛,是因为我从小有一个毛病——遇到事情一紧张,手和腿便颤抖得厉害。我想多锻炼自己的胆量,让自己变得从容一点,自信一点。可是因为参加慧姐的婚礼,我错过了初赛。慧姐是我从小到大的好朋友,似姐,似母,她出嫁,无论如何,我一定要参加。当我从家回到学校时,才知道,原来错过预选了!
我问自己,如果当初我知道请假回家会错过演讲比赛,我还会回家吗?答案是:“会!”对,我现在觉得,演讲比赛,我以后还会有很多机会参加,但慧姐的婚礼一生只有一次吧!
人生中难免会有很多不如意的事,难免会有很多遗憾,但正是因为有不如意,有挫折,有遗憾,才能让人幸福的`真谛。有一句话说得好:得不到的东西才会念念不忘,才最美好。无论遇到什么,我们换个角度看,可能有不一样的体会。
看着太阳一点点下落,我伸出手掌让阳光从手缝透过来,照在脸上,我不由自主的,嘴角上扬了45度。心想,今天的太阳快要落山了,明天还会有更明媚的阳光照亮世界……
写作后记:老师,我知道作为一个学生,请假回去参加朋友的婚礼,是不应该的,但是我是一个没有妈妈的孩子,我的这个朋友曾给我母亲般的温暖,我不知道该怎样报答她,所以就用参加她的婚礼作为我的一点心意吧。老师,你能原谅我吗?
“老师——”教师办公区,她和一个女生站在走廊上,捂着发热的额头对迎面走来的班主任喊了一声。
“嗯。”应她的却是另一个老师。
“我,”
噔噔噔噔。
不等她说完,他们就走进了另一个办公室。
“走吧,我们跟上去。”她旁边的女生拉了拉她的袖子。她握紧拳头,心也被什么蜇了一下,让她一时难以呼吸。落寞的身影映在窄窄的走廊上,显得幽长而寂寥。
办公室里有好几个老师,她犹豫了一会儿,还是决定走进去去请假,毕竟头太疼了。
“老师。”她和她的朋友走到班主任身边,略显虚弱的声音并没有打断他们的谈论,她想,她应该再等会儿。但是,几分钟过去了,还是没有人看见她们。她看了看手中握紧的请假条,颤抖的纸菲仿佛在嘲笑她的自不量力,她想她一定是疯了才跑过来自取其辱。气愤地把纸抓成一团,拉着和她一起来的女生,用力地把纸团甩在地上,头也不回的冲出了办公室。
在回到那个沉闷的教室之前,她必须得先去躺洗手间用冷水洗把脸。“呼——”她长长的吐了口气才褪去眼中的涩意,只有额头上的冰凉让她感觉那些莫名的痛减缓了些。她早该知道的,也早该习惯的。
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最后一排,就是她的位置。无论怎样的变化,她都在那条固定的直线上徘徊。静静地回到那个接近墙角的地方,泪就这么毫无预兆的掉了下来。这就是差生的待遇,她一直都懂,只是习惯了骄傲的她从没有想过这一天也会降临在自己身上。浅薄的尊严,狼狈的青春,漫天的耻辱感涌上她的心头。
她想控诉这个不公平的世界,可是她的控诉是如此的微不足道。她没有任何资格去论证些什么,因为,曾经当她过着宠儿的日子时,有的人却在走廊上扎马步。
外面的天已经黑透了,她不规矩的心也渐渐安定说了下来,她知道,这一切都怨不得谁。让她想想,坐到最后一排是什么时候来着?一个月前,两个月前,三个月前……记不清了,也有可能是一年之前。颓废的趴在桌子上,拉下沉重的眼皮,毫不顾忌地睡觉了。
没有人可以轻而易举地获得一切,是她太粗心了,居然忽略了努力。因为忘了努力,所以才让自己沦落致此。她也固执的想,她是不是感谢那个所谓的老班,是他让她明白了差生卑微的地位,更让她像个跳梁小丑般在教师办公室里沦为他们的笑柄。再一次,她讨厌了她的班主任。
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多雨的初夏,并不怎么讨人喜欢。些许的阳光透过云层慢慢洒满大地,渐渐升高的温度使清新的空气开始发酵,酝酿着周围的嗜睡因子。压抑的物理课上,她迷糊中开始打起了盹。
不好,“巡逻”的班主任来了,同样不喜欢物理课的同桌赶紧摇了摇她枕着睡的手。猛地睁开眼,飞快地瞟了眼窗外,boss大人果然来了。下意识地抓起桌子上的笔,装模作样地看起了黑板,直到他人走了才放下高悬的心。
没有继续睡的,她开始反思自己,作为一名合格的差生,她坐着最后一排,上课玩过手机,看过小说,睡过觉,在班上考过倒数,还翘过课,根本就没必要再担心害怕。看着窗外淅沥的'小雨,她相信明天一定又是一个大雨天。那么,从明天开始,玩点刺激的游戏——逃课吧。
于是,她一连三天没来上早自习。每天舒服的睡到七点多,吃着家里美味的早餐,完了才悠闲的散步到学校。
第四天,她忍不住来了学校,内心失落极了。三天不来上早自习也没关系吗?居然没有人在乎,她愤怒地踢了踢教室里的墙,闷闷的样子看上去像个赌气的孩子。
那场大雨一连下了两天,第三天,雨小了,她却感冒了。还记得,那两天早晨马路上全是水,从家门口一直流到路的尽头。
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一晃,又到了第四节晚自习课。发呆的她没有注意到班主任拿了几本杂志走进了教室,直到他把一个黄色的大信封放在她桌子上时才回过神来。惊讶、激动、震惊一时滑过心头,或许还夹杂了感动。望着那人离去的背影,她轻声说了句谢谢。翘课、请假神马的都不重要了,低头吻了吻信封,她无声的扬起嘴角。
她可以感受到,信封里是一本杂志样书,只是不知道是哪个杂志社的。没有什么比等待中稿更漫长,更令人煎熬的了。每一次投稿都害怕石沉海底,所有的希望可能在失败中一点一点的消磨。她知道那不过是生活的一点磨难,而强者永远不会屈服。
青春期的我们,生活中从来不缺少敏感的困难,如果不能克服,它将成为我们堕落的借口,特别是差生与老师之间的关系。
某天化学课上,老班走下讲台,“一不小心”看见了她桌子上绿豆糕盒子。
“你这个吃货!”恨铁不成钢的声音。她一听,乐歪了,捂着嘴偷笑,绝不承认自己是故意在他课堂上吃东西。
“啪啪!!”他将左手覆在她的头顶,用沾满粉笔灰的右手狠狠地拍了上去。
她弯着眼睛看着那个矮矮的身影,想着,那个晚上他真的很忙吧。但这并不重要了,重要的是他仍然是那个她尊敬的小鼻子、樱桃嘴的老班大人。
This is my first week in ** Senior Middle School.Everything here is new for me.Our school is an old school but it`s very beautiful.I have 50 new classmates in my class.They`re all very excellent, I think, and I felt a little sad.Because I`m too common.But come to think of it,it`s a very good thing.I believe I can also be very excellent if I study with such excellent classmates.I didn`t know why Ms *** chose me to be the committee of study.But I know it`s a good chance for me to raise my ability.All I can do is do my best in the future.I am sure that Ms *** and my classmates can help me when I do something wrong. Because they`re all very kind.It`s a pleasure to work and study with them.I`m really very happy.I`m not an outstanding student in this class,but I can do the same thing like others.I believe I won`t make anyone disappointed.
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