我们一家平时上学的上学,上班的上班,很少有时间交流,只有在双休日可以到外婆家走动走动,不仅可以借助聚餐的机会交流一下,还可以陪陪平时寂寞的爷爷奶奶。
有个星期六,我们一家又来到了外婆家聚会。一进门,爷爷马上放下了手中的画笔,跑出房间迎接我,一会儿摸摸我的头,一会儿抱抱我,情不自禁地说:“唉呀,几天不见孙子又长高了,天天吃得好,睡得好,长得结结实实的!呵呵……”奶奶则在厨房里给我准备好吃的,一见我来了,就从厨房里走出来说:“孙子,饿了吗?有好吃的奶奶拿来啊。”说着,就拿了一些饼干给我垫垫肚子。爷爷回房把东西收拾好,又请我当他的老师教他学电脑,奶奶又去烧饭。
到了晚饭时间,奶奶做了一桌丰盛的佳肴,我们纷纷聚拢过来,但她自己却还在忙活这忙活那,我见她忙了一下午还没上餐桌,不忍心吃饭,便把奶奶拉了过来。
菜一道一道地端上来了,有我爱吃的红烧排骨和炖鸡汤等一些大鱼大肉。我总是听爷爷奶奶说青菜萝卜保平安,那可能是他们平时吃的了,而今天餐桌上是荤多素少啊!
一开饭,奶奶就给我夹了一个我从小就爱吃的鸡腿,三下五除二就被我消灭了,爷爷又毫不迟疑地给我夹了一个,我说:“我从小到大吃的鸡腿已经数不胜数了,妈妈小时很少吃,就给妈妈吃吧。”而妈妈接过鸡腿又悄悄转给了爷爷,边夹边说:“小孩子的营养已经够多了,老人也要多吃一些补补钙。”爷爷却舍不得吃,又给了爸爸,爸爸又……就这么转了一圈,又转到了爷爷碗里,而爷爷夹着鸡腿放回汤盆,并说:“还是留给孙子晚上吃吧……”
我们一家在聚餐时总会出现这一幕,不管是在小家或奶奶这样的大家庭,都是这样,让我徜徉在这种关爱中长大。
星期六黄昏,忙了一整天的我拖着疲乏身子前往念念不忘的家庭聚餐,这次妈妈订到闻名遐迩的港式喝茶餐厅,当一家人全都到齐时,五脏庙早已饿得不像话,所以第一道韭菜虾仁肠粉一上桌,咱们便顾不得形象的饥不择食将滑溜的肠粉、新鲜的虾仁、香味浓郁的韭菜及鲜美的酱料一口吞下肚。
接下来的好菜一盘又一盘的送上桌,满桌的香气扑鼻而来,有鲜美的雪蛤海鲜羹、口味稠密的金菇牛肉煲、微辣的海鲜粉丝煲、甜美的翡翠虾仁饺、具有稠密港式风格的咸鱼鸡粒炒饭及广式炒饭、煎得金黄的腊味萝波卜糕、还有我不敢测验的椒盐田鸡、我认为菜里有加金块的金银蛋线菜等。
其间我最喜欢的菜肴是金菇牛肉煲,各种菇类加上薄厚切得刚好的牛肉,以及口味稠密、微咸的酱汁,正下饭,令人口中留香,想一吃再吃。这次的聚会使我体会到,令我思念的,不是菜肴的滋味,而是浓浓的亲情,我很走运,能有这么多爱我、支撑我的家人,我只能说,我是全世界最高兴的女孩!
今天是我们盼望已久的聚餐日,正好是在中秋节的前一天。今天我和平常大不相同,我早早的就起床就准备开始准备东西。
我一看,外面在下雨,我想:下雨天怎么聚餐呀?我的心情一下子就灰暗了起来。还是爸爸让我又高兴了起来。爸爸说:没事,如果下雨,就在我们家举办。我们一家立即出去到处去采购我们需要的东西。
下午,爸爸和我到商场去采购一些小食品。不一会儿,我的同学全都来到我家了,我们在一起玩电脑,简直是太高兴了。过了一会儿,我们便去各家帮忙端菜。我们这家跑了那家跑,就像身上抹上了润滑油一样,一点都不累。我还帮着大人搬椅子。
菜都齐了我们大家坐在一起其乐融融的坐在一起吃饭,真是太快乐了,我真希望天天我们都欢欢喜喜的坐在一起吃饭。
这样的感觉太不一样了,因为这样我们可以尝到各家做的菜。我们吃的太香了,吃的自己都非常的饱,同学们也吃得非常香。
我们吃完饭以后,我们就到每个同学家做一下,好不容易在一起玩了,我们肯定要痛痛快快地玩一天,也作为对自己的放松。
最后,我们都回家了。我们好久没这样玩过了,今天我们都玩得非常尽兴。
星期天,我们接到了家庭聚会的邀请,去北新泾二外公家里作客。在那里,我遇见了好久没有看到的其他外公,外婆,舅舅,姨妈……老辈人的重逢,那个热乎劲啊真叫人感动不己。他们讲话的声音很响,让人感到震耳欲聋。有时却细声细语,如同山涧溪水无声也有声。
午饭时间到了,二外公为大家准备了一桌丰盛的菜肴。有红烧肉,椒盐排条,红闷大虾,四喜丸子,水晶虾仁等等……整桌好菜馋得我直流口水,我吃了好多好多,也喝了不少饮料。午饭吃的很晚,我们也该回家了。三外公开轿车送我们回家的,他开的车又快又稳,不一会我们就到家了。
这次家庭聚会对我的教育很大,使我明白了亲情之间的温馨,和谐是多么重要,又多么幸福啊!
When I was a freshman in college I watched the film Gua Sha Treatment for the first time, now I am a junior student and I come back to review the movie from a multicultural aspect, I have many different feelings after watching the film again.
At the beginning of the film, XuDatong is given an award and later he delivers a speech. What makes me impressed most is in his speech he says “one day I will become one of you, a truly successful American, today this award proved that America is a true land of opportunity and I am the living proof of that.” At that moment Xu thinks he has realized his American Dream totally with his lovingly wife and adorable son. However, I think it is ironical that to make a speech like that and I assume it is made on purpose to hind a clue for the story's development. How many non—American people have such a beautiful American dream? One of my classmate studies in American now and before he went aboard he told me his American dream is he can stand at the top of the New York. To be honest, I also dream that one day I can get the Green Card living there happily and successfully maybe working at the Wall Street. When Xu gets the award he thinks he entirely melted in the melting pot neglecting the multicultural obstruct, later the plot goes against the way he thinks. And later Quinlan asked Xu'why you be the scapegoat of your father?' Xu answers 'because he is Chinese.' Then maybe Xu knows that there is always a wide gap between Chinese and American cultures.
The second scene is Xu hit his son Denis because Denis hit the son of xu's boss, at the middle of the film xu tells his boss that he hit his own son is only to show his respect to his boss John Quinlan, that time Quinlan feels puzzled “what a Chinese logic”,yes, American can never understand such a logic full of Chinese characteristic, because they respect everyone including the children, they won't beat a child to please the boss, and there is no such a conception of degree between employee and employer, they feel everyone is equal, which is quite different from china.
Connected to the second scene, the third difference I want to analyze is the care for the children. In America, people pay more attention to the right of children which can be seen from the law—leaving children alone at home is illegal, while in China it is so common that almost everyone may experience such loneliness. And Children Welfare Agency does work in America which shows the importance Americans attach to children's right. What's more, I remember a line 'No one won the case, especially the child.' In my opinion, it also manifests the universal concern from the American public to the children.
The fourth aspect is following the procedure, in the film, more than there times, the people focus on the rule, the law, the procedure. At the Christmas Eve Xu wants to return back to his home pretending as a Santa Claus, what a pity, the security recognizes him and persuades 'you are always a good tenement, never causes troubles for me.' And another scene is at the end of the film , the judge says 'I have to follow the procedure.' However, in China people always have to ask for a favor to do something, and later you have to pay back the favor,for myself, I prefer the American style, strict to the procedure.
The fifth and the last point is the humors, Quinlan says 'you can't fall, your health security is the company paid.' 'Datong, welcome home, maybe next time, you can come from the front door.' 'dady, why you come from the window' ' because we don't have a chimney.' I really adore this distinguished American humor, especially in dangerous situations, which is quite rare in China.
That's my whole reaction to Gua Sha Treatment.
过年啦!过年啦!和往年不同,今年的年三十中午我和爸爸妈妈邀请爷爷奶奶、外公外婆都来我们家吃饭,准备饭菜可是一项光荣而艰巨的任务,我们早早便开始计划。
提前几天我们就把菜单大致定了下来,包括凉菜、炒菜、烧菜、汤和主食,一共十六道。我负责凉菜中的水果拼盘。年二十九一大早我们便去菜场和超市进行了大采购,为了确保新鲜,爸爸大年三十早上去买了鲈鱼。从年二十九晚上我们便开始洗菜、切菜、摆盘、烧菜……做好前期准备,虽然很忙碌,但我们做得井井有条。
年三十中午,爷爷奶奶、外公外婆来啦,我们先让他们在客厅喝茶吃点心,边看电视边聊天。我和妈妈把凉菜摆上桌,爸爸开始做热菜。等到准备得差不多了,我们邀请长辈们到餐厅就坐,一盘盘色香味俱全的菜肴陆续端上餐桌,我端起饮料向长辈们敬酒并且说了很多祝福的话。期间,大家有说有笑,还不停地夸赞我们的手艺,比饭店里的还要好吃,听得我心里美滋滋的。
爸爸妈妈说每一道饭菜都有我的参与,我觉得这样的新年聚餐更加有年味,更加有意义!
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