有人说,他是贾宝玉的原型。
他才华横溢,出生贵族,拥有旁人想不到的幸福。
他青年丧妻,英年早逝,品尝了他人想不到的孤独。
王国维形容他:北宋以来,一人而已。
他是纳兰容若。
翩翩佳公子,伤情何其多。在纳兰容若笔下,有他对妻子的深情,对故乡的眷恋,对友人的真诚。
“家家争唱饮水词,纳兰心事几人知?”纳兰容若的悲欢离合都藏在词中了。
念念不忘,总是初见
《木兰花·拟古决绝词柬友》
人生若只如初见,何事秋风悲画扇。
等闲变却故人心,却道故人心易变。
骊山语罢清宵半,泪雨霖铃终不怨。
何如薄幸锦衣郎,比翼连枝当日愿。
如果每一个人都能如初见般美好,这世界上,就不会有那么多悲剧。
人人盼望着人生如初见,可世间最易变的就是人心。
就像当年唐玄宗和杨贵妃,那时候,海誓山盟,约好一起变老,可到最后,唐玄宗为了大唐江山,却轻易抛弃了杨贵妃。
可以沉浸于爱情,但不要沉溺于爱情。真到了要忘记的时候,就不要再沉迷以前,过去的,就让它永远过去吧!
愁绪绵长,深夜思乡
《长相思·山一程》
山一程,水一程,
身向榆关那畔行,夜深千帐灯。
风一更,雪一更,
聒碎乡心梦不成,故园无此声。
乡愁是所有中国人共同的信仰,纳兰容若也不例外。
这一天,纳兰容若随康熙在塞外,思乡的情绪被风雪吹的更加浓烈。
风声不断,雪花不住,扰得思乡的将士们无法入睡,在温暖宁静的故乡,就没有这般寒风呼啸、雪花乱舞的聒噪之声。
我们一切的情感,理智和意志上的追求或企图,不过是灵魂上的思乡病。
人在落难的时候,在孤苦无依的时候,最容易想到故乡,那里可以遮风挡雨;最容易想到亲人,他们可以抚慰孤独。
当时寻常,再难寻到
《浣溪沙·谁念西风独自凉》
谁念西风独自凉,
萧萧黄叶闭疏窗,沉思往事立残阳。
被酒莫惊春睡重,
赌书消得泼茶香,当时只道是寻常。
纳兰与新婚妻子琴瑟和鸣,曾有过一段恩爱甜美的时光。
但美好的生活没能持续多久,成婚三年后,妻子撒手人寰,纳兰悲痛不已。那些他以为最寻常的快乐,却成了此生再难拥有的幸福。
伤心的纳兰把所有的哀思与无奈化为最后一句“当时只道是寻常”。一句词,字字皆泪,蕴含了无限追悔之情。
红尘中的暖,从来都是这般的简单,在一眼的遇见里,在日常的灵犀中,在相看两不厌的默契中,在当时只道是寻常的光景里。
忘年知己,承诺一生
《金缕曲·赠梁汾》
德也狂生耳。
偶然间,缁尘京国,乌衣门第。
有酒惟浇赵州土,谁会成生此意。
不信道、遂成知己。
青眼高歌俱未老,向尊前、拭尽英雄泪。
君不见,月如水。
共君此夜须沉醉。
且由他,蛾眉谣诼,古今同忌。
身世悠悠何足问,冷笑置之而已。
寻思起、从头翻悔。
一日心期千劫在,后身缘、恐结他生里。
然诺重,君须记。
让纳兰容若在意的.不止爱情,还有友情。
1676年,纳兰容若与顾贞观初一结识,便引为知己,近20岁的年龄差,也未能影响他们的友情。
初次见面,纳兰便赠给顾贞观这首词。他在词中直白地表示,愿意与顾贞观结交,直到下辈子,依然做好朋友,这是他的承诺。
一直以来,许多人将纳兰引为理想中的爱人,实际上,他还是一个真诚而值得托付的朋友。
渔夫之梦,悠然自得
《渔父·收却纶竿落照红》
收却纶竿落照红,秋风宁为剪芙蓉。
人淡淡,水蒙蒙,吹入芦花短笛中。
无人不羡慕渔父自在而美好的生活,纳兰容若也不例外。
夕阳西下,渔人收起鱼竿准备回家。连秋风都是温柔的,不肯让荷花凋谢了。
烟水蒙蒙,渔人悠闲自得,听短笛的旋律,被秋风吹进芦花荡的深处。时人称纳兰题画诗词,有种“烟水迷离”之感,从这首小令的诗情画境中可见一斑。
点击下方名片,和百万诗友一起
读禅语,听禅意;共悟人生,净化心灵
几乎每位诗人心中都有一个渔父梦。失意落魄时,它是一种慰藉;志得意满时,它是一个提醒。
所以苏轼会写“酒醒还醉醉还醒,一笑人间今古”,李煜会写“一壶酒,一竿纶,世上如侬有几人”。
毕竟恬淡自由的生活,谁不向往呢?
相思无望,未能终老
《画堂春·一生一代一双人》
一生一代一双人,争教两处销魂。
相思相望不相亲,天为谁春?
浆向蓝桥易乞,药成碧海难奔。
若容相访饮牛津,相对忘贫。
纳兰的恋人在天上,纳兰想要去访她,却不能。
从来没有见过这样的纳兰,他悲怆地说:明明是共度一生一世的两个人,命运却偏偏安排他们两地相隔,不能在一起。
相思相望,又不能相亲相爱,那么这春天又是为谁而来的呢?两情相悦却偏偏不能在一起,若是能终成眷属,抛弃荣华富贵也心甘情愿。
我们向往的爱情模式并不是轰轰烈烈的,而是平平凡凡的在一起。
月有圆时,爱而无期
《蝶恋花·辛苦最怜天上月》
辛苦最怜天上月,一昔如环,昔昔都成玦。
若似月轮终皎洁,不辞冰雪为卿热。
无那尘缘容易绝,燕子依然,软踏帘钩说。
唱罢秋坟愁未歇,春丛认取双栖蝶。
对亡妻的思念,深入到了纳兰的骨子里。
这一天,纳兰又梦到了妻子,两人泪眼相对,昨别时,她告诉纳兰:可恨我不是天上的月亮,可以每夜照向你团圆。
梦醒之后,纳兰写下此词,像是对妻子的深情告白:如果能够像天上的圆月,长盈不亏,那么,我作为冰雪,将不惜为你融化。
痴心的纳兰,甚至表示,想要与妻子的亡魂双双化作蝴蝶,在灿烂的花丛中双栖双飞,永不分离。
想到世界的角落有一个你,觉得整个世界也变得温柔安定了。
题画秋景,自然恬淡
《水调歌头·题西山秋爽图》
空山梵呗静,水月影俱沉。
悠然一境人外,都不许尘侵。
岁晚忆曾游处,犹记半竿斜照,
一抹界疏林。绝顶茅庵里,老衲正孤吟。
云中锡,溪头钓,涧边琴。
此生著几两屐,谁识卧游心?
准拟乘风归去,错向槐安回首,何日得投簪。
布袜青鞋约,但向画图寻。
纳兰的笔下,也有悠然恬淡之作。
这是一首题画诗,西山秋爽图所画之景真是绝美,斜晖脉脉,山林萧疏,绝顶之上,一孤僧悠然闲坐。
看着画中老僧闲云野鹤般的生活,让他无限向往,他也希望能够摆脱尘累,去享受恬淡平静的时光。
全词物我交融,情景相谐,用词清丽,有一种云淡风轻的静谧感。心若恬淡,则生活自然恬淡。
送别友人,难舍难分
《于中好·握手西风泪不干》
握手西风泪不干,年来多在别离间。
遥知独听灯前雨,转忆同看雪后山。
凭寄语,劝加餐。桂花时节约重还。
分明小像沉香缕,一片伤心欲画难。
顾贞观是纳兰最好的朋友,这一年,顾贞观因母丧南归无锡,纳兰难舍万分,写词送别。
执手相送,恋恋不舍,不由得泪流满面。遥想你在家乡独坐灯前,听着窗外淅沥的秋雨,无人可以相伴;转念一想,你我曾经同在雪后看山,也可稍解别后独处的寂寞孤独。
思念之外,纳兰劝顾贞观“加餐饭”,这是何等平常的生活琐事、琐言,却藏着纳兰最真挚恳切的关怀。
与你离别的悲伤,是无法描画出来的。让人泪流满面的,除了爱情,还有友情。
怀念亡妻,哀婉动人
《采桑子·谁翻乐府凄凉曲》
谁翻乐府凄凉曲?风也萧萧,
雨也萧萧,瘦尽灯花又一宵。
不知何事萦怀抱,醒也无聊,
醉也无聊,梦也何曾到谢桥。
这一夜,伴着这萧萧雨夜,听着这风声、雨声,望着灯花一点点地燃尽,纳兰失眠了。
夜阑更深,夜晚的静谧代替了白日的喧嚣,相思便也蠢蠢欲动,从心底涌上脑海。
这是一种无法言说的情愫,思念中带着自嘲,冷淡中带着自责,想说爱一个人真的不容易,但停止思念已经远去的爱人更难。
整首词看不出任何山盟海誓、海枯石烂的决绝,反倒是处处透着几分聚散无妨,由他去吧的淡然。
晚清词家陈廷焯《云韶集》卷十五:“凄凄切切,不忍卒读。”
每次,只有到深夜时,我才敢将你想起。
浮生半醒,道尽如梦人生,酸甜苦辣,都是真情滋味。
在纳兰容若的词中,爱情是那么深沉,友情是那么真挚,思念是那么刻骨。
是否也有一首纳兰词,百转千回,写到了你的心里?
I read the Chinese version of “Camille” a few years ago. At that time I was deeply moved by the main character Marguerite Gautier. “Camille” or “The Lady of the Camellias” by Alexandre Dumas, fils, is the story of Marguerite Gautier, a young courtesan, or kept woman, in Paris in the mid 1800's, and how she falls in love with a young man, Armand Duval, and then tries to escape from her questionable past. Unfortunately, it comes back to haunt her and she ends up returning to that life and dies painfully and alone, but with the knowledge that she was a noble woman at heart. When I first began to read the book, I did not care for Marguerite or her attitude or lifestyle, but as I got further into the narrative, I realized that her saucy attitude was a front to cover the lonely woman that she really was. She felt used, abused and unloved, until the gentle Armand Duval came into her life and showed her that he loved her as a person and not for what she could do for him. It must have taken great courage for Marguerite to leave the life she had lived for so long, knowing all along that it was probably too good to be true and would not last indefinitely. And it also showed that Marguerite really loved Armand Duval for she could even change herself for him.
However, happiness didn’t last for long. When M. Duval, Armand's father, came to her, pleading for her to leave Armand to save both Armand's reputation and that of his younger innocent sister, Marguerite saw a way to become pure of heart, if not in body. She felt that it was her duty, because she loved Armand so much, to do this even though it meant giving up her own happiness and hurting Armand temporarily. She reluctantly returned to her former life, knowing that.some day Armand would forgive her. Sadly, she died in debt and basically alone, except for her one female friend, Julie Duprat, who helped her during her illness. She had her journal sent to Armand after her death, explaining why she had made the choices she had. I think Dumas's last few lines about Marguerite being the exception, not the rule were quite true, and I also agreed with his view that while her lifestyle could not be condoned, we as a society assume that all of these type of women are cold and heartless, while this may not always be the case. A person can make the wrong choices in life when they are young, and try to redeem themselves, but sometimes past situations prevent them from changing their lives, even though they desperately wish to do so. This applies to both men and women in many different types of circumstances: involvement in crime; drug or alcohol abuse; gambling; prostitution; financial problems; poor marriage choices; etc. And this is the fact, which exists in the whole society.
As far as the other characters in the book, I think Marguerite was right in saying that no one truly cared about her, but only wanted something from her, the only exceptions being Armand and Julie Duprat. Of course, the Comte de G. and Comte de N. wanted her body and appearance. The
Duke needed to “wake up and smell the coffee” and realize that she could never replace his dead daughter. If he truly cared, he could have helped her leave her lifestyle without “keeping” her himself. And lastly, Prudence was a blood-sucking leech who used Marguerite almost worse than the men. I also think she was jealous of the fact that Marguerite had so much more courage than herself and someone truly loved her.
Last morning, when tiding my bookshelf, I took this book out of the shelf, and a dried flower flew away from the book. It was pale blue, very transparent, with thin fine veins. a dried flower flew away from the book. It was pale blue, very transparent, with thin fine veins. I held it against the morning light and blew on it. The soft breeze carried it away. Camille is just like the camellia, she could never escape from the destiny of withering. But it wasn’t her fault; it’s because of the evil of Capitalism and the hideousness of that society.
Suddenly, I remembered a saying: “Women are like the flowers”. Those pretty women are like those beautiful flowers; their delicate beauty makes people feel they are the miracle of life. However, even the God envies their beauty. It seems that beautiful women always have tragic endings. As we are normal persons, even we can see the hideousness of humanity that results in their fate of withering, we can at most ask quietly in our hearts: Where have those beautiful flowers gone? Where have they gone?
The Life And Adventures Of Robinson Crusoe
It seemed to be such a coincidence that the night after I finished reading The Life And Adventures Of Robinson Crusoe, I was to dine in a restaurant distinctly related to the book itself. This restaurant was no other than the famous American-styled “Friday ’s. ” The reason for mentioning this restaurant is quite straightforward to all the gentlemen, ladies and children who have read the novel and enjoyed it, which is the fact that this restaurant was, most likely, named after the American Native in Robinson Crusoe, called Friday. This restaurant offers very exceptional service, for instance when the waitresses are asked to order dishes they kneel rather than stand, which, unlike the other restaurants I have been to, makes it easier for the customers to hear them speak. Moreover, Friday’s friendly services to the customers help them to make better choices when ordering dishes. I remembered when I went to Friday ’s last time; the waitress kindly described the items on the menu with precise details. It turned out that the combo I initially wanted was designed to be shared among a large group, not to be eaten by one person. I think this restaurant shows many commendable features similar to that of Friday. Friday brought emotional warmth to the people around him with his appealing personality. I think it was this personality that affected Crusoe and made him say that he loved Friday when Crusoe didn ’t express love for his parents, brothers, sisters, or even his wife. “When he espied me, he came running to me, laying himself down again upon the ground, with all the possible signs of an humble, thankful disposition, making many antic gestures to show it to let me know how he would serve me as long as he lived.” This was what Friday did after Crusoe had rescued him from the two savages chasing him. It was easy for me to see why Crusoe had loved Friday. After sometime, Crusoe and Friday were to rescue Friday’s father. When Friday reunited with his father, the scene was easy to move anyone: “It would have moved anyone to tears to have seen how Friday kissed him, embraced him, hugged him, cried, laughed, halloed, jumped about, danced,
sung; and then sung and jumped about again, like a distracted creature. It was a good while before I could make him speak to me.” This is my favourite chapter in the whole book. It is hard to see why Friday is an ex-savage when he can have personalities more praiseworthy than many civilized people, viz. Crusoe himself. “When he (Friday went to him (Friday’s father, he would sit down by him, open his breast, and hold his father’s head close to his bosom, half an hour together, to nourish it; then he took his arms and ankles, which were numbed and stiff with the binding, and rubbed them with his hands.” Furthermore, Friday’s expression of loyalty in asking Crusoe to kill him rather than leave him is more heartfelt than anything Crusoe ever says or does.
Crusoe, on the absolute contrary, seems incapable of deep feelings, as shown by his account of leaving his family—he never shows any emotions. After a moving lecture from Robinson’s father about his future, he still decided to follow his own wandering ambition. Careless was he about the wishes of his parents to keep him alive and prosperous, as he was the only child left in the family. When he came back from the island which he had lived on for twenty eight years, he found that it had been too late to tell his parents that he was still alive, but yet again he did not feel sorry for them; he also did not feel sorry for the two people who had to live in misery for nearly thirty years under the allusion all of their sons were dead. He had the same feelings for his wife: when he was married, he said it was “not either to my disadvantage or dissatisfaction”, implying that it was also neither to his advantage nor his satisfaction. Moreover, after his wife died, Robinson did not think of looking after the three children they had, but went back to the island, which he had lived on for twenty-eight years. It was on this trip which Robinson Crusoe revisited “His Island ” as he called it. I feel that Robinson ’s indifference to his family is almost emotionally cruel.
Before had clearly shown the contrast between Crusoe’s and Friday’s personalities, as when Friday, in his joyful reunion with his father, displayed far more emotion toward his family members than Crusoe, whereas Crusoe never mentions missing his family or dreams about the happiness of seeing them again. I think Defore is very successful in introducing Friday as part of the novel, it makes the whole novel seem much more complete and gripping to the reader, as well as proving that Defoe’s ideology of racism is civilized unlike many other Europeans at that time; natives and savages are not worse than others but can perhaps even be more modern and civilized. Those are the reasons of why I like The Life And Adventures Of Robinson Crusoe and Friday.
游戏开始了,第一组是张生德猜、涂言超演。张生德集中注意力努力猜着,当猜到第二个词时,他一下子愣住了,着急地捏紧了拳头,旁边的同学急得大叫,特别是方哲,不假思索地说出了答案,又马上捂住了自己的嘴巴——也许他觉得有点不好意思了吧!
最有意思的一组是我和陈思瑜了。我们俩推来挡去,都不愿意去猜词,结果还是我上去了。开始很顺利,连着猜准了好几个,可到了后来我却愣住了,因为我不懂陈思瑜在说什么、装什么,急得涨红了脸。同学们指手画脚地围着我转,方哲更是急得像小猴子似地上蹿下跳。
当黑板上出现了“跑鞋”时,陈思瑜抓耳挠腮不知道该怎么表达,就不小心说出了一个“跑”字,被判犯规,我们俩只好垂头丧气地败下阵来。
This is a story about a special and unreserved woman who has been exposed to a hostile environment but continuously and fearlessly struggling for her ideal life. The story can be interpreted as a symbol of the independent spirit.
It seems to me that many readers’ English reading experience starts with Jane Eyer. I am of no exception. As we refer to the movie “Jane Eyer”, it is not surprising to find some differences because of its being filmized and retold in a new way, but the spirit of the novel remains----to be an independent person, both physically and mentally.
Jane Eyer was a born resister, whose parents went off when she was very young, and her aunt,the only relative she had,treated her as badly as a ragtag. Since Jane’s education in Lowwood Orphanage began, she didn’t get what she had been expecting——simply being regarded as a common person, just the same as any other girl around. The suffers from being humiliated and devastated teach Jane to be persevering and prize dignity over anything else.As a reward of revolting the ruthless oppression, Jane got a chance to be a tutor in Thornfield Garden. There she made the acquaintance of lovely Adele and that garden’s owner, Rochester, a man with warm heart despite a cold face outside. Jane expected to change the life from then on, but fate had decided otherwise: After Jane and Rochester fell in love with each other and got down to get marry, she unfortunately came to know in fact Rochester had got a legal wife, who seemed to be the shadow following Rochester and led to his moodiness all the time ----Rochester was also a despairing person in need of salvation. Jane did want to give him a hand, however, she made up her mind to leave, because she didn’t want to betray her own principles, because she was Jane Eyer. The film has finally got a symbolist end: Jane inherited a large number of legacies and finally returned. After finding Rochester ’s misfortune brought by his original mad wife, Jane chose to stay with him forever.
I don’t know what others feel, but frankly speaking, I would rather regard the section that Jane began her teaching job in Thornfield as the film’s end----especially when I heard Jane’s words “Never in my life have I been awaken so happily. ” For one thing, this ideal and brand-new beginning of life was what Jane had been imagining for long as a suffering person; for another, this should be what the audiences with my views hoped her to get. But the professional judgment of producing films reminded me to wait for a totally different result: There must be something wrong coming with the excellence----perhaps not only should another section be added to enrich the story, but also we may see from the next transition of Jane’s life that “Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you would get.”
What ’s more, this film didn’t end when Jane left Thornfield. For Jane Eyer herself, there should always be somewhere to realize her great ideal of being independent considering her fortitude, but for Rochester, how he can get salvation? The film gives the answer tentatively: Jane eventually got back to Rochester. In fact, when Jane met Rochester for the first time, she scared his horse and made his heel strained, to a certain extent, which meant Rochester would get retrieval because of Jane. We can consider Rochester’s experiences as that of religion meaning. The fire by his frantic wife was the punishment for the cynicism early in his life. After it, Rochester got the mercy of the God and the love of the woman whom he loved. Here we can say: human nature and divinity get united perfectly in order to let such a story accord with the requirements of both two sides. The value of this film may be due to its efforts to explore a new way for the development of humanism under the faith of religion.
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